Making Assumptions and First Impressions

You can’t have a second chance of a first impression. The problem with first impressions is that they can be completely wrong. Everybody has a first impression of somebody, it’s just natural. We like the look of somebody or we don’t, we think they dress nice or they don’t, they are intelligent or they are…

Birthdays

Well I want to write and I’m a bit stuck for ideas. So my Idea Guy suggested birthdays. Don’t know why… it’s not like it’s anybody’s birthday soon… apart from mine and his!!! 😀 Mine is in February, his is not long after and both of them are not that long after Christmas. So I…

My PTSD Journey – Part 3 (The end of CBT)

Well here we are… the end of a very long and challenging year of my life but also a big chunk of my life. Over the last year I have been living with post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and having cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) to treat it. Before starting my therapy I heard a lot…

The Power of Distraction

Over the years I have come to realise that thinking does not do me any good. I’m not really sure that it does anybody any good. Over thinking doesn’t anyway. Over thinking just sends your mind around in circles and it never ever ever ends. There’s so many things in life to over think and…

Frogs and Fairy Tales

Life is a funny old thing. In a split second it can completely change it’s course. Sometimes that’s not a good thing at all, but sometimes it is. I grew up imagining a wonderful fairy tale adult life, a big wedding, a big house, a big family, like most little girls do. Too young to…

A Blog About Blogging – by The Blogger

It’s hard to believe, but three years ago I didn’t even know what a blog was. Not really. I just knew that it was where people wrote things online. I didn’t know why, or who, or when or even how. I was just a Sheffield lass in my late twenties with no obvious future because…

New Look for 2020!

Happy New Year everyone!  This is just a quick post to introduce the new look to you all.  Now that I have a bit more time on my hands I thought I would jazz up the website a bit.  Hopefully now it will be easier to get to the posts you want to read.  So…